I'm more passionate than ever about helping women and vulva owners shift out of sexual freeze and into their pleasure.

Why?

Because Therapy, Sex therapy and traditional coaching isn't the whole story when it comes to working with chronic freeze. 

Here are some reasons why

As a society, freeze has remained and continues to remain in the shadows, often shrouded in shame.

Freeze by its very nature is designed as an invisible survival response, so it likes to stay invisible. Hence people who are in it, don't know that it's even happening.

Healing spaces often want to push their practices without understanding that post traumatic physiology needs soft, slow and tender care. That means no pushing through, no over riding, and an understanding of how to work with the shame that often accompanies chronic freeze responses. 

By and large truly authentic and actually embodied humans (by that I mean those folk who are truly aligned with their power and aren't afraid to live their truth and disappoint people) are inconvenient and don't tend to consume lots of stuff.

Society doesn't want truly embodied women and vulva folk because then we might actually speak up.

Coming out of freeze can feel like an awakening, and we don’t want awakened people do we?!

I said what I said.

So, 

The reason I work with sexual freeze is because it's here that we might have a clue that there's a problem, stopping us from accessing our pleasure and potency.

And who doesn't want more potency and pleasure!

So, back to the reasons traditional therapeutic methods are not the whole story.

One of the worst things that I see with clients is that we begin to think something is wrong with us, that maybe we have low libido, or just don't enjoy sex.

Maybe.. 

And also maybe theres sis something else going on? 

The sad thing is…Most women and vulva owners want to feel more pleasure in their bodies.

But they end up going to a practitioner who doesn't understand the depths of freeze a body might be in, or the true origins of the sexual wound (which have usually began in childhood) 

They end up telling you to start with dilators, and you feel like a massive problem that needs to be fixed asap.

The good news is: it doesn't have to be like this.

You can begin to melt the core freeze in ways that are gentle, non punishing and sensitive to where you've been on your journey of healing thus far.

You can do sexual healing in a way that's  effective and sustainable.

You can abandon the outdated model of listening to everyone else except yourself and have a slow and steady pleasure awakening instead.

This is the work I've been doing quietly, with my private clients over the past 3 years.

I'm regularly sending emails again — to get this info into the hands of more of you lovely folk.

I'll be writing about, how to actually melt chronic freeze (hint, it's not how you think), what the process can be like for the one who has been frozen, and approaching sexual healing differently.

And if these emails help even ONE person awaken to their pleasure

It'll be worth it

Love and Body Magic,

Mina